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.gov-verified · State-by-state · 2026

Name change after marriage by state

Pick your state below for the exact DMV name-change steps, fees, and documents after marriage — each one backed by official government sources and verified. The order is the same everywhere: Social Security first, then your state DMV / REAL ID, then your passport. Your state sets its own forms, fees, and whether you can do it online or only in person, so the state-specific step is the one that trips people up.

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Pick yours and you'll get steps written for your state, with every step linked to its official .gov page and stamped with the date we last checked it. We only publish a state once we've confirmed it, so you're never guessing.

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Frequently asked questions

Which states have verified name-change guidance?
We publish .gov-verified DMV steps for 33 states so far, listed above. For every other state we route you to the official sources and the federal steps (Social Security, REAL ID, passport) that apply everywhere — we never present unverified state rules as confirmed.
Does the name-change process differ by state?
The federal steps (Social Security, passport, REAL ID rules) are the same everywhere, but each state DMV sets its own forms, fees, accepted documents, and whether you can change your name online or only in person. That state-specific step sits between Social Security and your passport.
Do I change my name at the DMV or Social Security first?
Social Security first, in every state. Your state DMV verifies your name and SSN against SSA's records, so updating SSA before the DMV prevents your license or REAL ID from being rejected on a mismatch.
What if my state isn't listed?
Start with the free preview — it gives you the correctly-sequenced federal steps that apply in every state, plus official sources for your state. We add states as we verify them against their official DMV pages.

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